Hari ini nak kongsi ilmu yang bermanafaat dari Wardina, Serious best sangat baca cara Wardina mendidik Amna untuk solat 5 waktu. Aku berharap dapat mendidik anak ku untuk menjadi insan yang solehah dan berjaya di dunia dan akhirat.
Jom baca penulisan Wardina nih..
Dear Mama, Ummi, Mum, Ibu,
Bonda…
I have to share this with
you… because i feel so happy and i feel that all my penat lelah paid off…I
started to make my Amna to solat 5 times a day when she was 7, on her 7th
birthday…we had a talk…(check note lama) tapi preparation since 6 la…
tapi dari kecik memang
selalu ikut2 la kami solat….she hasn't missed her solat since. Walaupun lambat,
tetap solat. I made sure of that – because the key is SOLAT ni kalau tak tanam
dari kecik memang LIAT nanti….But it is very important to keep this in mind:-
1) kalau kita bagi dia
tinggal WALAUPUN sekali nanti we are sending the wrong signal – kena make sure
– every waktu without fail, walaupun penat, ataupun lambat
2) l Selalu kalau boleh
solat together..mula2 memang kena solat together….kalau tak ada rumah make sure
an adult in the house pastikan anak kita solat. (hari tu Amna pergi her reading
class, i asked her teacher to take her to the surau) -lepas solat time tu lah
peluk cium, senyum – i always kiss her at the head and say “Barakallahufiha” Ya
Allah make my Amna a good Muslim Ya Allah….make her never miss her solat Ya
Allah…..kuat2 bagi dia dengar….
ps:- kalau kena amik cuti
ambillah – bukan waktu exam je amik cuti – buatlah STEP ini, yakni melangkah ke
alam 7 thaun dan tidak meninggalkan solat A BIG Thing! “mama amik cuti hari ni
sebab nak pastikan yang adik solat 5 waktu sehari!”
3) Selalu cerita how
IMPORATANT it is to solat..how Allah is watching us… how we are good Muslims
when we solat, how Allah loves us, Solat tu, untuk kita, bukan untuk
Allah…..TAPI selalu jugak cerita yang akan ada orang TAK solat…acknowledge the
fact that sometimes we feel lazy to solat….itu semua kerja SETAN! Fight them
off….! I tell Amna that even some grown ups tak solat! I tell Amna that….we
have to be strong.. we have to tell ourselves we will NEVER miss our solat…..
4) Awal2 subuh ni memang tak
bangunkan, tapi as soon as dia bangun pagi, ill ask her to solat straight
away.(yes memang leceh..but we have to, and we have to do it with LOVE diselang
seli dgn strictness)
5) kalau dia tinggal –
DENGAN sengaja, i take the rotan and hit her on her tapak tangan slowly, just
as a reminder. After that i hug her and tell her i love her, and i just want
her to remember – and guess what?? memang dia ingat!!! (3 kali baru, i think
not bad, sampai satu hari dia terlambat solat, sebab keluar dan memang tak
ingat, dia yang suruh rotan) But i tell her kalau TERLUPA atau TERTIDUR its
ok…but kena solat terus bila bangun.
Macam ni ceritanya, i told
Amna, kalau Ummi ambik Amna dari sekolah lambat, Amna solat dulu Asar kat
sekolah….tadi memang datang lambat…i was loking for her..and guess what????
She was actually praying her
Asar prayers…sorang je kat dalam surau tu….i wanted to pengsan and cry…she did
all by herself…. i pun told her how happy and how proud i was of her…i tanya
dia kenapa? dia kata “Amna ingat apa Ummi cakap”…..cair nya hatiku ini.
Apa lagi, Ummi ni peluk cium
dia….and called nenek at Australia…now im sharing with all of you!!! Because i
want us to raise generation of good Muslims that are disciplined, smart,
intelligent -that remembers Allah because the world so BADLY needs good QUALITY
Muslims like this!!!
And the foundation is – to
start them off right – solat at SEVEN! Yes just as how Rasulullah asked us!I
love you all!!! Good night…..
But the key to all this IS Mak Ayah KENA dan
WAJIB solat dulu…anak ketam tak boleh diajar berjalan terus…fahamkan?
Semoga bermanafaat untuk semua..Copy & Paste dari Wardina Safiyyah.
bagusnya dia...alhamdulillah...
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